Explicit Erotic Sex Stories (4 Books in 1): The best collection of stories to explore your sexual fantasies and apply them with your partner or lover!

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If you’re willing to do that, then full steam ahead. If not, then hopefully you won’t have to wait too long… Rough sex The mind is really the recipient of all the body's sensations. So there's this empirical evidence of a huge connection between the mind and pleasure," she said. Many people, specifically women have admitted not telling their partner about their sexual fantasies because they did not want to be viewed differently, be rejected, or made fun of. This same issue affects men, but it would seem that women felt this more strongly than men do. In our minds we're not confined to our studio apartments or our current sexual partners. There are no rules or judgments. Not even the laws of physics apply," said Gina Gutierrez, co-founder of the popular audio erotica app Dipsea. "It’s incredibly liberating, recognizing our own power to design the scenes and situations that turn us on and to scrap the ones that don’t work for us." It's easy to get scared off by an intense response to a fantasy, and write that off as being too weird or outside the norm for your taste. But if you give yourself a second to assess where that response is coming from, you might actually find that the intensity comes from a part of you that you've never tried tapping into before.

Somewhere romantic like "a deserted beach is far away from chores, deadlines, or any responsibilities," says Bromley. "It's a place where a woman can just be in the present moment. There isn't anything waiting for her to do, she can just relax into the bliss." And what's sexier than that? It's perfectly healthy to role play or try new things in bed; it can be a great way for couples to spice up their sex life. But certain fantasies may be more difficult to talk to your partner about than others, such as ones that involve group sex, or getting busy with someone else. It's also important to know that imagining yourself enjoying oral sex with that friendly barista doesn't necessarily mean that you're looking to cheat or in you're in the throes of an emotional affair. Lehmiller discovered that Americans’ top erotic reveries fall into seven broad categories—three very popular, and four less so but still quite prevalent. The top three included: Tired of the missionary position and need a leg-up in the bedroom? This is perfectly normal too! 'Sometimes people indulge in sexual fantasies quite simply because we are bored,' says Moyle. ❤️ Maintaining controlOne of the greatest enemies of sexual desire and satisfaction is boredom," says Levy, "especially in longer-term relationships." Fantasizing about someone you know is partly due to the fact that they regularly show up in your real life, and also because "novelty, mystery, curiosity, and imagination are all hallmarks of desire," Bromley explains. Spectrophilia refers to having a thing for ghosts because sometimes humans aren't worth it. It usually involves the fantasy of a spirit, but sometimes people believe they actually have sex with one at night or while they sleep. Traditionally, a succubus refers to a female sex ghost, and an incubus is a male ghost that has sex with humans as they sleep. 15. Dominance and Submission Another sexual fantasy women have is to be dominated by their partner. They want to be told what to do and how to do it, while being restrained and having objects used on them by their partner. If you've ever had sex as a guest in someone's house, you know that the thrill of getting caught can make your romp seem even hotter. And 57 percent of women fantasize about taking things even further by having sex in a public place, according to the research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. "There's a sense of liberation and empowerment in fantasizing about having an audience and the idea that you sexually excite others with your performance and arousal," says Bromley. Long-term relationships require a commitment to investing in your sexual connection. You and your partner probably have some overlap in sexual fantasies and listening to sexual fantasy stories can serve as a catalyst for conversations about the kinky things you want to try. For example, if you fantasize about blindfolds and spanking, having your partner listen to a story incorporating those elements can help you work up the nerve to ask if they're interested in trying it out. 4. They give you ideas for role play

Through her research and other studies in the field, Wise has ultimately found that, "This distinction we make between the mind and body is really a very arbitrary one."A sexual fantasy that women would almost never want to talk about, even with their partner, is the desire to masturbate while their partner does the exact same. This is something you have to be patient and understanding about, because sex means different things to everyone, and the conversation shouldn’t be forced.

If you’re one of those interested parties who has never done it before, you might want to start with smaller toys first and talking with your partner about the possibility of douching. Sensation play To try it: If your desire is an encounter that focuses more heavily on sensuality, tell your partner you'd like to take things slower than usual the next time you have sex. Spend extra time on foreplay, and play around with trying to arouse each other by exploring one another's bodies in ways you normally wouldn't. Slowly building up to orgasms can draw out your pleasure, an add in that powerful element of sensuality that you're craving. Remember, fantasies are normal and healthy.

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Multiple partners. This is Americans’ top erotic daydream. Almost everyone reported having it—87 percent of the women, 95 percent of the men. The top multi-partner fantasy involved threesomes, with moresomes not far behind. Many people fantasized of many men and women playing together (swinging, orgies), while others focused on one person having sex with many others (gangbangs). Quirofilia is one of those kinks that sounds more far-out than it is: It simply refers to an attraction to hands. Whether you go for big, hairy hands, or soft, dainty manicured ones, considering how much we use our hands during sex, it's a highly relatable kink. 22. Pregnancy