Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders

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If your man gave you this book, then he may already have explained why he is interested in being chastened.

Male Chastity is so much more than a way to spice things in the bedroom: it is a path towards a better understanding of men's sexuality and women's needs.The whole idea of male chastity is for him to sacrifice and serve, not for you to get pushed around.

For the typical submissive male, there are no realworld outlets for this part of his nature, so fantasy is his only source of release. When he does, let him see how much you enjoy it; let him appreciate the effect that his attentions, and the situation, are having on you. On the following pages, you will find space to record the areas of your relationship that you would like, in an ideal world, to change. If you’ve never come across the idea of male chastity before, you’re probably wondering what all the fuss is about. In another survey, only one percent of males claimed not to masturbate (and you have to wonder about the reliability of that one percent).The devices sometimes come with different-sized rings, and possibly include spacers that can be inserted to improve the fit. Her thoughts definitely lean toward more than orgasm control and towards the key holder having all of the power/control. If your man is to play a sport that’s incompatible with the chastity device he normally wears, then you have no option but to remove the device while he does so. You will certainly experience a profound shift in the power and pleasure dynamic of your sexual relationship. Presuming he’s becoming hornier by the second day, he would record a ‘2’ and a ‘1’ indicating that he’s a little hornier but not yet feeling significantly more frustrated, and so on.

Then there’s the fact that men still tend to earn more than their female counterparts; that’s likely to make him the main breadwinner, which in turn gives him a lot of influence over how the household income is spent. They also tend to be more discreet and less expensive than the custom belt designs (though they can still run to serious money).He might nag you (or even beg you) for sex but you don’t have to permit it unless you’re genuinely in the mood (you don’t have to permit the nagging, either). It is aimed at couples who want to rev up their sex life, who are prepared to experiment with new ideas, who are responsible and caring enough to take one another’s well-being seriously, and who perhaps wish to go further than occasional bedroom play. Why would he want to muddy the waters by having me lock his penis up, while also trying to get me to live out whatever his fantasy-du-jour might be? It’s not as if a sportsman can summon his keyholder into the stadium if he begins to experience problems. Other times, they can constrain our options for happiness, by forcing us into counterproductive modes of living.

The answer a man receives to this urgent question will be different for every woman and between every couple; we’ll examine some possibilities shortly. As soon as you lock your man into a chastity device, his ability to continue with all these convenient activities (activities that come to him as naturally as scratching, and that probably include a lot of scratching) is going to go away. This can be any kind of container that can be sealed so that tampering will leave clear evidence; the easiest and cheapest method is to place the spare key in an envelope which you sigh, seal and tape securely.The exercises do not conflict with one another, so the most natural and efficient approach is to conduct both at the same time. Since the belt’s fitting must be perfect, any weight loss or gain could mean that it’s not just your man’s pants that he won’t be able to get into any more – and custom chastity belts cost way more than pants! This book is about male chastity within a long-term relationship between a woman and a man who know and trust one another. Male Chastity: the practice of securing a consenting adult male by means of a lockable chastity device such that the chastened male’s sexual release can be achieved only with the keyholder’s involvement and consent.